Rejection

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 *Sigh*

Rejection... Taking an L. Some people say it's a part of life, and I do agree with that. There's no way anyone on earth hasn't been rejected. In fact, I guarantee almost all of you guys reading this blog have been rejected one way or another.

I don't know about you all, but I can't take an L. I simply can't stand the thought of  someone saying no. Why? Well...

During the valentines week of 2019, I asked a then new girl whether she wanted to be my date to the V-Ball that my school hosted that year. She said no. That whole week, I couldn't stop thinking about that moment. My mood instantly dropped. For the whole of that week, I felt off. So much so that I made the decision not to attend that year's celebration (I was meant to come with my friends). On the day of the V-Ball, which began at 16:30, I left for home straight afterschool.

I may also seem shy around girls... but deep down I know that I simply cannot simply just approach a girl. Why? I'm afraid of being rejected. I dunno why. I dunno where this came from, but I suddenly became scared of rejection. One of these good days, things will change for the better. I shall overcome this fear! (That day better come soon! Time's running out. C'mon fate. Do your work 😂)

Comments

  1. _260424 June 2021 at 23:10

    We’ve been there kau… we move

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  2. Unknown24 June 2021 at 23:14

    Take the L and move on kau

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    1. Amo25 June 2021 at 02:21

      You will overcome this fear dont worry 😘I think u should keep on trying,trying and trying.You will eventually get what you want,don't give up!!

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  3. Unknown25 June 2021 at 02:26

    Chief buh there were two new girls, the other left, is the other still there?

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  4. Unknown25 June 2021 at 06:25

    We have all been rejected Piwi, so dust yoself up & move on....

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  5. Anonymous25 June 2021 at 11:12

    I'm sorry chief okay it was 2019 and im sure you knew the situation someone already asked me and i agreed already ����im sorry though we can talk about it if you like cause it seems like you need closure

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  6. Unknown25 June 2021 at 16:17

    Rejection is hard but as you said it is a part of life. It is heartbreaking and you are not alone. Being scared of girls is understandable because of what you went through but i promise you that you will overcome your fear and be with a girl that loves who you are and more❤️

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